i'm 16, grade 11. so .. last month or so, i snuck out of the house and i went to a party. i drank too much so i ended up staying over @ a friends house. when my mom found out in the morning she went ballistic (because this is the first time i've acutally been "out" in my hs life ). she is going crazy ... she just set up a new "alarm" system. i think my mom is in denial right now but i don't feel like putting up with her crazy ideas of keeping me "safe"
do you have any advice? :/
Well, not gonna lie, you kind of did this to yourself. Instead of just talking to your mom about it, you went out and snuck out against her. You’re going to have to talk to her eventually, it’ll only get worse if you ignore it. It’ll just make your relationship worse and worse and you guys will never understand each other. You need to just sit down, and talk about EVERYTHING. Why you snuck out, what you think of everything, and let her talk as well.
hey sylvia :) uhm, I was wonder what your complete outfit be if you wore a loose plain light green formal top with black beaded pocket on the top in the front with? sorry, if i didn't explain it well :/ Like your jeans, something over it (cardigan, leather jacket etc. Shoes, and it's snowing here btw so help! :) thanks a whole bunch and i love your youtube and tumblr! your my idol.
If it’s long enough, I’d wear black leggings. If not, wear black skinny jeans. Then I’d put a black, cropped leather jacket, opened. And little black booties (:
I got some false eyelashes, but they turned out to be WAY too dramatic for me! They are so long that it is obvious that they are fake. Should I trim them? Or should I just not wear them unless I'm going out? I have about 10 pairs of them. :(
Trim a few of them to test it out, and keep some for special events (:
I already asked this question on your personal Tumblr but that's before I remembered you had made this Tumblr strictly for questions, sorry! I'll just ask it again on here and you can delete the one on your other Tumblr. :P
Do you know where I can buy a simple, black, tight, high-waisted skirt like the one you were wearing here: http://queensylvia.tumblr.com/post/3551631846/at-city-nightclub-yesss-embrace-my-asian-glow
I live in California and we don't have an Aritzia here or anything.
I have a problem with skipping school. I just don't care.. I've never been this way before this year.
I'm a senior and I need serious help! What van I do to motivate me to go to school?
Well, tell yourself that it’s your SENIOR year ..and this pretty much dictates what you’re doing after high school. If you want to redo another year of high school or end up staying home because you didn’t get accepted to any colleges or university, then so be it! If you actually want to SUCCEED in life, then go to school. Tell yourself it’s your last year ..and you only have a few more months anyways.
hey sylvia, i got this top as a gift, and im having a hard time trying to match it...mostly because its not really my style so im not sure what would look cute with it. any suggestions?? http://canada.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=top&product_id=2000014274&Page=7&pgcount=100&sort=lp
A pair of dark, plain skinny jeans, or leggings. Or even plain, denim shorts for the summer (:
Hi Sylvia, i know that you mentioned before that you Luke to wear the ardell romantic lashes. I tried to look fir them I'm shoppers but couldn't find them. Do they have a specific pacagking color or number?
hey sylvia , I'm looking for a job but thing is I kind of get nervous during interviews and I tend to go blank cause I'm not good with on the spot questions .. any advice ? and what kind of questions did they ask you when you applied for aritzia ?
Come prepared. Most places ask the same generic questions, like, “why do you want to work here?” “how will you benefit the company?” and do some research on the company as well. Aritzia asked the same generic questions right when you hand in your resume, but when it came to the interview, they had pretty intense questions. I don’t remember exactly, but there was a lot about customer service.
Why yes, yes I am. Hahaha, I rarely drink, I’m not very good at alcohol. I think I drink like ..no more than three times a year, ROFL. And even when I do drink, it’s pussy drinks like Pornstars and Coolers, LOOOL. I’m so soft.
this is a bit personal but I want to be honest.
I've always been conscious and minded about my chest size because i'm very flat, plus, i've never actually gone bra shopping ALONE myself either so it's a bit : l
can you help me out? and i feel embarassed to like ask for help D: ..
What do you need help with?
Don’t worry about your chest size, I’m flat too!
Hey what lashes are you wearing in your club pics? they look soo nice on you :) And what lashes do you recommend for prom if I want natural looking ones with a bit of drama? Also, which brand of lash glue do you like the best?
So the thing is, I'm pretty small. and skinny. And I like the skirt that you wore in the pictures at City Nighclub. Where'd you get it? I don't know if I'd look right in it. But you're slim and it looks cute.
It’s the Talula bandage skirt from Aritzia. And it’ll definitely fit a skinny girl (:
Hi Sylivia (: I'd like some advice, please.
Is it normal to not want to have a boyfriend, for a little while? I feel like I'm just fine without one and sometimes, they are just another responsibility to me. I've had 4 bf's, and I'm 18.
Yeah, that’s totally fine. You’re just growing up and realizing that you don’t need guys, you just need to please yourself. No one’s forcing you to have a boyfriend. Just do youuuu.
so im new at this plucking thing.. what if i plucked my bottom eyebrows more than my top. i havent touched my top cause idk how to shape it. do you think a salon would be able to fix it? i mean even if i overplucked the bottom half
People don’t generally pluck the top too much, to try to keep the natural arch. But I don’t know ..people that I know that go to the salon, don’t touch their eyebrows themselves at all.
Hm ..I don’t really have favourties, but I have my most used.
Fuchsia by Sally Hansen
A nail polish from Forever21 that doesn’t have a name, but it’s similar to Minty by Revlon and Jaded by Rimmel.
White by Sally Hansen
Flyin’ High by China Glaze
Hi Sylvia, sorry to bother you but, can you maybe suggest me some advice? How do you deal with people always up in your business? I'm dating this guy, who is a Junior in high school, and I'm in 8th grade... My boyfriend and I are approximately 2 years apart; he's 16, and I'm 14. The only people that knew were my boyfriend, my “best friend”, and me. I really didn't want anyone else to know because it'll just erect a lot of drama, such as people thinking I'm lying, assuming things, calling me a whore, etc. And there's this guy, Jack, who is getting on nerves. He's constantly asking me if I kissed my boyfriend yet, and why I don't want to kiss him. I honestly don't want to kiss my boyfriend because I personally think that relationships doesn't necessarily mean kissing, and I think I'm a bit too young, well, kinda. Plus if my boyfriend’s only in it for a kiss then I’m out, but my boyfriend already know that I don’t want to kiss him, and he’s totally okay with it.Jack is always telling me that if I don't kiss my boyfriend, he's gonna dump me, and move on to another girl because he's a Junior, and it bugs me so much. Also, Jack is constantly saying that my boyfriend looks gay. Jack is only judging him via his Facebook pictures, and it just makes me wanna punch Jack. I tried to ignore him, but he bugs me more and more. I just want to squeeze his head, and tell him to mind his own business, not mine. Jack has a girlfriend, and he's not a virgin. Why does he need to interfere with my life! >.<
I just don't know what to do.
Just ask him, “why do you care so much about me? do you like me or something?” He probably won’t have a good answer. Or tell him to go care for his own girlfriend.