why do parents want their daughters to be with a rich guy? I know you're no parent but I'm just wondering what do you think. Did your parents want you to be with a rich guy? My biological dad is always talking to me about me finding a rich guy. -______-
Because they don’t want you to suffer or be poor in the future. Financial issues bring lots of stress.
Hi Sylvia, lately i've been feeling down all the time because of insecurities. My bf & I have been together for ALMOST 1 yr now, yet I always think i'm not good enough & that he could be alot happier with someone else. Knowing about his past relationships & his past crushes leaves a sense of sadness in me for some reason.. that feeling where you think, "well.. why didn't it work out for them? Why me?" It's hard to explain. He's sad when i'm like this, but what should I do to get over this?
You need to stop comparing yourself to his past! That is absolutely the worst thing you can do. Just think about it, his past is his past, and you don’t need to know EVERYTHING about it. You’re with him now, and if he’s been with you that long, there must be something he sees in you (: Don’t think about the past, because it’ll just mess with your head, and it’s really something that shouldn’t. Is it worth ruining your relationship because you want to over-think about his past? No. If you break up because of this, you will regret it all. You will regret letting the past come between you guys.
Who cares why it didn’t work out for them? Why does it matter so much to you? Some things just DON’T work out. You should be HAPPY that it didn’t work out with the others, so that now he’s with YOU. Why does it matter why they didn’t work out? What would benefit you knowing? He’s with you now, and that’s all that matters. Enjoy and embrace every moment you have together, because it might not be forever. You don’t need to waste time concerning yourself with someone else’s past (that really has no effect on you, in any way. I mean, whatever reason why they broke up ..in what way does it benefit you knowing?). You already wasted your time for the past year, putting yourself down, when you could have been really happy with your boyfriend the whole time. You’ve already waste a year like that, don’t waste anymore! (:
My boyfriend's mom doesn't approve of him dating anyone and him and I really like each other a lot, he doesn't want to break up with me, but he doesn't want to disrespect his mom by dating me behind her back. What should I do to calm myself down and get over it if we do end up breaking up?
Some things just aren’t meant to happen at times. Maybe it’ll happen later on. Don’t be upset, you guys can still be friends! It’s not the end of the world, I promise. Maybe it’ll work out later at a different time (:
Hi sylvia! I don't know if you'll be able to answer this, but i'll give it a shot. Today I bought some Jordan Flights (Jordan sc-2) in black with gold hints. (you could google a picture of it to get a better idea) Umm..I'm a girl and I have NO idea what to wear with these O: Someone said to 'match my shirt colour with the shoes', but since the shoes are black, Having a black shirt and black top would look awkward on me. Any tips/outfit ideas? If you can't answer, thankyou for trying! (: <33
Jeans, and a black top with gold writing on it? Haha, sorry, I’m not really a sneakers girl.
hey sylvia,lately my best friend is being a bitch. she changed so much the past year. she started blazing and drinking. its pretty disgusting considering shes only 14. whenever i try to tell her to stop she just ignores me. and when we're both online on msn she NEVER starts the convo and ignores me. in grade 8 before she did all that, we always hung out lunch but sometimes she ditches me for her other friends. i do have other friends but their not that close enough to hangout with. shes also kin
People change ..and if you don’t want to get caught up into that, then I think you should just hang out with your other friends more. If she won’t listen to you, and she’s ignoring you, then she obviously doesn’t care for you like you care for her.
why do the majority of exes not talk to each other? have u experienced anything like this? me n my ex broke up not over a fight but it was because he said he felt we weren't close anymore :S it's been 7+ish months n we still find it really awkward. ): and we were really close before and i miss him heaps. sometimes it's not good to risk a good friendship for a relationship, hey? :(
I’m friends with all my ex’s. But the majority of relationships aren’t like that. I think it just depends on how the situation went and how you both are. And yeah, sometimes a friendship is worth more than a relationship.
Me and this guy both admitted to each other we kind of like each other. We usually talk all the time because he texts me first, but lately I'm starting to feel like he doesn't like me anymore because he's not talking to me first and stuff. We're seeing each other on Friday. I've already told a couple of my friends because I was excited he liked me back, but I'm not sure if he told any of his friends.
He probably just doesn’t want to come off as clingy or something. Don’t overthink it and just chill!
hey sylvia. so i'm in my final year of high school and we're pretty much beyond the stage of bullying here. however there are these two guys that keep bugging me about being chinese, especially these days, since we are obviously taught a lot about china these days in class. my initial reaction would be to flip out, but i think that would make me come off as a psycho, but even though i ignore them, they go on and on! help?
Just roll your eyes at them and tell them that they need to grow up. And then ignore the rest. There’s not much you can do when you know how immature they’re being and you don’t want to come off as crazy! Just be the bigger person (: It’s probably nothing against you ..they probably think they’re just being funny.
I have my Hollister interview this thursday, what should I wear? I want to be classy but I don't want to dress up too much. Any suggestions? (: thanks so much!
Try to take a look at what the girls wear in there (I don’t know personally, never been in the store), and try to just create a more business casual version of that. Maybe add a blazer, and a nice high-waisted skirt. Good luck!
Would u only say hi to someone online when u have something to telll them about? I always realy wanna talk to this guy i like when he's online, coz it's always him saying hi to me first and i feel bad. but i always dont have much to talk about now with him, and after awhile we wouldnt talk for like an hour or so until one of us needs to go. Is that weird or awkward do u think?
I’d just say hi if I want to talk to him, it’s not that big of a deal.
Hi! well I've been trying to find a good style for bangs and i really like yours!! so what kind of a facial shape would you say you have?? and what should i say to my hairdresser for the bangs?? thanks! :)